Baby Hunger Cues: Signs Your Baby Is Hungry
Babies should cry when hungry, right? Guess again! They shouldn't.
Hungry babies signal their mothers long before they cry. After spending some time together, you can easily recognize your baby's hunger cues.

How Do I Know If My Baby Is Hungry?
Babies show signs of hunger in stages - beginning from gentle hints, progressing to vigorous cry. Catching early signs makes breastfeeding easier and keeps your baby calm.
Early Hunger Cues (Best Time to Feed)
- Opens mouth and turns head looking for breast (rooting)
- Brings hands to mouth
- Makes sucking motions or sticks tongue out
- Becomes more alert and active
- Fussing and squirming
Active Hunger Cues
- Actively searches for breast while licking lips
- Starts sucking on hands, fingers, or anything near mouth
- Moves head from side to side
- Clenches fists and brings them to chest
Late Hunger Cues (Baby Is Very Hungry)
- Crying and fussing intensely
- Body becomes tense
- Skin may turn red
- Hard to calm down
At this stage, your baby is very upset and it's harder to latch. Try to catch earlier hunger cues to avoid this.
How Do I Know My Baby Is Full?
Signs Your Baby Is Full:
- Releases breast and turns away
- Relaxes and sleeps
Babies usually feed 8-12 times a day. Your baby may sleep for 2-3 hours between feeds, but some babies feed more frequently. Every baby is different - feed on demand whenever your baby shows hunger cues.
What If My Baby Is Crying and Won't Latch?
Despite watching for hunger signs and feeding on demand, you may sometimes miss your baby's early cues. A very hungry baby will start crying and may not latch easily to the breast. Here is how to calm your baby before latching:
- Check your baby's diaper and change if wet or soiled
- Swaddle your baby – wrap them in a sheet keeping their arms and legs gently straight. This helps them feel secure and comfortable
- Hold your baby in a sitting position, curled against your chest, and gently rock for a while
- Offer breast – guide your nipple and a good part of the areola into baby's mouth. Your baby will move a lot and may not suck immediately, but keep trying
- Your baby may suck for a few seconds and start crying again. This is normal when the baby is very upset. Stay calm and continue offering the breast. After a few tries, the baby will suck continuously and finally latch deeply
Key Takeaways
- Recognize the three stages of hunger: Early (rooting, hand-to-mouth) → Active (searching, sucking hands) → Late (crying)
- Act on early cues before your baby becomes very upset – this makes feeding much easier
- Babies usually feed 8-12 times a day, but every baby is different
- If you miss early cues and baby cries, calm them first before attempting to latch
Getting used to each other's patterns during the first few weeks can be challenging, but you'll soon recognize your baby's unique signals. Feel free to contact us for your queries and suggestions.
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